The first thought that came to my mind after reading this was the same I’ve had many times, “I don’t want my kids to grow up to be like me, I want them to be themselves.” After reflecting deeper, this is so true. Many times, Meghan has said or done something and I wonder to myself, “where does she get that from?” then I stop and realize what I’m saying or doing and it hits me, “SHE SEES ME DO IT!”
This is a scary concept as a parent, but one that if we have our focus and priorities straight, it can be a great reward. The greatest reflection of ourselves is not in a mirror, but rather in our children.
Don’t like who your kids are right now? Do a mirror check and see if you like what you see.